The best way to prevent a runaway is to spend time on a regular basis and with each of your children. Daily attention is ideal - - time away from the TV, video games, and other distractions. Perhaps time after the family meal, or after homework, or after a school function or a sports practice.  During these one-on -one times, give your child your full attention. 

• LISTEN to them in a non-judgmental way.
• Take children's concerns seriously. Don't dismiss their worries and fears out of hand.
• Pay special attention when they ask you for help. Make your responsiveness to them a top priority.
• Confront warning signs or other trouble signs directly, firmly and calmly. Discuss your concern and the consequences of their continued unacceptable behavior. But don't lecture.
• Talk with others -- your child's friends, their parents, or your child's teachers may have helpful insights or suggestions.

Don't be reluctant to seek help from professional counselors when situations seem beyond your control.
 

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