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Guidance
for Parents: Understanding Runaways
What
to do if your Child Runs Away:
Having
a child run away is an exceptionally emotional and trying experience --
fear, worry, anger, guilt -- may all combine to cloud your thinking and
confuse your judgment and your actions. Although you may feel totally alone,
there are people and agencies that can help. Here are some recommended
steps to help you think clearly and act effectively to return your child
to your home:
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Make a
list of possible places your child may have gone. Check with friends, relatives,
neighbors, and, if you are divorced, your former spouse.
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Keep a
record of everyone you contact and what they told you. It may also be helpful
to write down your own feelings just to clear your head.
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Look for
clues for possible locations your child may have gone to. Search your son
or daughter's room for signs of preparation. Ask his or her friends, teachers,
and coaches for ideas. Check favorite "hangout" spots.
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File a
Missing Persons Report with your local police department. Ask the police
to put your information onto the NCIC computer.
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If your
child calls you, show him or her concern and love. If your child is not
ready to return home, give him or her the number of Capital City Youth
Services (850)576-6000 or direct your child to the CCYS shelter at
2407
Roberts Avenue in Tallahassee. CCYS will work with you
and your child to bring you back together in a non-threatening environment.
Warning Signs of a Potential
Runaway
How to Prevent a Runaway
What to do When your Child Returns
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